Some memorable quotes from both the movies and from the book (He's Just Not That Into You (quotes from the book))
I'm not a fan of romance and comedy movies BUT I can truly relate to both these movies:
I've recently watched both these movies again.... (NO BLOODY idea why *still kicking myself*) but I did and I thought YIP both these movies are spot on!
Cut your losses and don't waste your time . Why stay in some weird dating limbo when you can move on to what will surely be better territory? Don't want to hear it? Fine. Here's the answer you're looking for, "Hang in there, baby. He's not the loser everybody's telling you he is. If you wait and keep your mouth shut and call at exactly the right time and anticipate his moods and have no expectations about communication or your own sexual needs, you can have him!" But please don't be surprised if he dumps you or continues to drag you through a completely unsatisfying relationship.
He is a man made up entirely of your excuses. And the minute you stop making excuses for him, he will completely disappear from your life.
"'Men, for the most part, like to pursue women.We (men) like not knowing if we can catch you.We feel rewarded when we do.""
Don't let the "honeys" and the "babys" fool you.
His sweet nothings are exactly that.
They are much easier to say than "I'm just not that into you."
Remember, actions speak louder than,
"There's no cell reception where I am right now." (THE MOST FAMOUS ONE!!)
Calling when you say you're going to call is the very first brick in the house you are building of love and trust.
If he can't lay this one stupid brick down, you ain't never gonna have a house, baby. And it's cold outside.
(Oh did that French dude love to pull this one,,,,, said he'd call to make arrangements for a romantic night out.... YEAH right he'll call a week later apologizing for showing up ~ always some excuse ~ HEY DUDE the NOT showing up was REALLY bad but the NOT-CALLING ~ that's F@&*ing weak!)
He will always be able to play the "friend" card on you. He only has to be responsible for the expectations of a friend, rather than the the far greater expectations of a boyfriend. He's got the ultimate situation: a great friend with all the benefits of a girlfriend, whom he can see or not see whenever he wants to. He may be one of your closest friends, but I'm sorry to say ... as a boyfriend, he's just not that into you.
(Like the freaking IRISH guy .... what an ass!! with his "I can only make Thursdays all us buddies can hangout like the friends we are" blah blah "SPLUT!" in your face a@ssH0lE)
I don't want to be "sort of dating" someone. I don't want to be "kinda hanging out" with someone. I don't want to spend a lot of energy suppressing my feelings so I appear uninvolved. I want to be involved. I want to be sleeping with someone I know I'll see again because they've already demonstrated to me that they're trustworthy and honorable -- and into me.
Don't be flattered that he misses you.
He should miss you.
You're deeply missable.
However, he's still the same person who just broke up with you.
Remember, the only reason he can miss you is because he's choosing, every day, not to be with you.
(in this case the man that chose another women to be with "....till death do us part..." and now keeps missing me... BS man you had your chance!!)
It's very tempting when you really want to be with someone to settle for much, much less -- even a vague pathetic facsimile of less -- than you would have ever imagined.
Remember always what you set out to get and please don't settle for less.
These guys exist because there are a lot of women out there who allow them to.
Hey girl. Put down the _____, put your clothes back on, and go directly to your best friend's house.
Do not find an excuse to stay.
Do not think that because of all the crazy hotness of it all, it now means that you're meant to be together.
Yes, break up sex does seem like a good idea, because hey, it's nice to have sex with someone you have these dramatic feelings about. It makes it all, well, dramatic.
But now you know.
It confuses everything and makes you separate sex and emotions.
So now you don't ever have to make that mistake again.
Got it?
He's into the very-bad-idea-that-masquerades-as-a-good-idea, breakup sex.
Over and out.
He's sniffing for something better, and when he doesn't find it, he gets lonely and comes "home."
It's not that he's so into you.
It's that he's so not into being alone.
Don't give him the chance to break up with you for the fourth time.
(Even the idea of it sounds beneath you, doesn't it?)
Reset your breakup maximum to one and move on.
Cut him off. Let him miss you.
He doesn't need to be reminded that your great.
There's a guy out there who's going to be really happy that you didn't get back together with your crappy ex-boyfriend.
No matter how powerful and real your feelings may be for someone, if that person cannot fully and honestly return them and therefore actively love you back, these feelings mean nothing.
Being lonely ... being alone ... for many people ... sucks.
I get it, I get it, I get it.
But still I have to say that yes, my belief is that being with somebody who makes you feel shitty or doesn't honor the person you are is worse.
Life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with. ~ Source SLP Girl
Since the release of the comedy 'The Ugly Truth' the male-female intimate relationship structures are again under observation. Even though it is a comedy revisiting the old and well-known cliche of male and female differences it still leaves couples and singles going home and re-thinking the gender differences.
Here are the film's quotes: The Ugly Truth about Men:
1. Stop trying to win a man's heart. Aim lower.
2. Men are visual creatures.
3. If you want a relationship, here is how you get one: It's called a Stair-master.
4. Laugh at whatever a man says.
5. No man is saying 'I love you' without expecting something in return. And by something, it's not a home-cooked meal.
6. Women, you have to be two people in order to lure your man: the saint and the sinner, the librarian and the stripper.
Let's have a look at the truth behind some of the points mentioned above:
It is known that 'men feel love when they are being intimate and women are ready to be intimate when they feel loved'. In a study of more than 100 couples this statement was agreed upon in 100% of the cases. One of the main points of challenges in the relationship between the genders is that both sides expect the other to play on their turf (point no 1 and 4) and speak their language.
It is proven that men are stimulated by visual input (point no 2). How else would the 'magazines for men' industry make millions of dollars every year? This leads us into the area of exercise (point no 3). It is a fact that men and women put more effort into exercise and being fit when summer is on our door step. So really, who are they shaping up for, themselves or the opposite sex? And yes, women also prefer a six pack to a beer belly...
Men and women are equally looking for affirmation. Laughing at whatever the man says has more to do with being in rapport with each other than anything else (point 4). Laughter is used as a signal for being part of a group, in this case the couple - it signals acceptance and positive interactions with others. Isn't that what we want with our mate?
And what about point no 6? Well I guess you have to find out for yourself...
Source: Ezine @rticle ~ Nathalie Himmelrich
Top 10 of the most popular ‘Ugly Truths’ (as voted by the public on Sony Pictures website to the film)
1. You can’t make someone fall in love with you.
2. Sometimes you can’t tell the difference between Mr. Right and Mr. Right-Now until it is too late.
3. Both men and women can act like children.
4. Men should not wear spandex. Anywhere. Ever.
5. Changing your relationship status more than once a week is not a good sign.
6. No matter how much we talk, you’ll just never get what its like to be a women.
7. She does look at other men.
8. No matter how hot she looks now, her “assets” will eventually fall victim to gravity.
9. Your parents had sex at least once, or you wouldn’t be reading this.
10. She’s faking it to make you feel better.
Well, that's some part of this topic.... I know this can go on and on and on ~ but I actually have some work to do!
And I bet there are millions if not billions of girls, ladies and women out there that knows this or parts of this by heart...... so this will continue just remember:~ The ugly truth is you can’t make someone fall in love with you.
""But "Emotion" could just be a word that people made up for us to seem more civilized than animals and instincts... Its all how you look at it... Just like you can attach the word emotion to what could probably just be an animal instinct..""
Some USELESS emotions: (my opinion)
HATE
ANGER
JEALOUSY
FEAR
LONELINESS
EMBARRASSMENT
LOVE
